The statistics kings, or as I refer to them- “they”, say that we break 65% of new year’s resolutions. New Year’s resolutions are designed to be broken, which is why I did not make any. I can experience failure any time I want, sometimes several times within a day, so I’ll be damned if I am going to court it. I was not always this way. I spent much of my 20’s and all of my 30’s on one self-help road or another striving to be better. Better than what? Better than me. It took me 43 years to accept … Continue reading Goals trounce resolutions
Relocating from the city to a village surrounded by apple orchards and woodlands has been a positive experience, for the most part. The culture is simpler here; a local art revue with centerpieces of apple sculptures, a Celtic Festival, the annual Town & Country fair, and the small building whose only function is as Santa’s house during the three weeks of Old Fashioned Christmas, epitomize our small-town community. We know our neighbors and everyone except one snotty couple waves to us when we turn onto our street. If we want to know the happenings around the village, or even if … Continue reading The Village
Sleep is an elusive and unpredictable bitch that switches up the timing of her escape between very late at night and much too early in the morning. She requires that I court her all day long in order to gain a slim possibility of a rare eight-hour stretch that will leave me feeling like I won the lottery. At least once a week I see or hear the sleep courtship rules that we have all memorized by now. The advice to not drink caffeine or exercise late in the evening is like receiving instructions on how to tie my shoes at this … Continue reading Chasing Z’s
There is a tavern on the shores of Bois Blanc Island, Michigan that feels like home. Barb’s Boblo Tavern is a meeting place for island folks where I can hear the surf of Lake Huron and drinking is not required, but encouraged. What are island folks? Well, the island is a different sort of place and likewise attracts many of the uncommon characters in my novel life story. There are year-rounders, usually about 60 of them, which live and work on the island and travel to the mainland over an ice bridge in the winter. There are the seasonal islanders, most of … Continue reading The value of a good bartender
With over 1,500 pieces, ArtPrize 2011 lured me in for another look. This time I took my husband who is quite evolved for a Michigan outdoorsman, although not appreciative of the more abstract art forms, the pieces that you cannot exactly say what it is because it is something different to each viewer. So I plied him with a tasty lunch and a microbrew before we looked and then topped off our outing with one for the road at an Irish pub in Downtown Grand Rapids. Included in this post are a few more photos of some of the pieces … Continue reading ArtPrize 2011 Revisited
Rachael Ray asks the guests on her daytime TV show 3 random questions designed to let the viewer know the celebrity a bit (because they are always unflinchingly honest during a talk show interview). She asked Sarah Michelle Geller, “If you could have dinner with anyone, alive or dead, who would it be?” Ms. Geller responded “Jackie Kennedy Onassis” to which the crowd “ooohhed” and Rachael complimented “good choice”. I have heard this question before and enjoy hearing the wide variety of answers and reasons why. Some people feel the weight of it and take a long time to decide, … Continue reading Dinner anyone?